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Restricted Words and Phrases in Calling Out the Shadows

A sample of the 2,150 words and phrases Neal Winsomer kept out of the book. The full list is in the book.

By Neal Winsomer  ·  Published by Neal Winsomer Publishing LLC

BookCalling Out the Shadows
AuthorNeal Winsomer
PublisherNeal Winsomer Publishing LLC
Restricted list2,150 words and phrases
Where it livesAppendix H
PublishedJune 16, 2026
ISBN979-8-9953351-1-5
ASINB0H1RL5WYB
LCCN2026907360

The restricted words and phrases in Calling Out the Shadows are the 2,150 that Neal Winsomer chose to keep out of the book. The full list is in Appendix H, and Appendix G defines the twelve categories behind it. It is a deliberate discipline. My intention was to keep the record calm and clear. This page gives an overview of the categories and a sample of the overused language. The full list of 2,150 words and phrases is in the book.

Clarity over comfort. Transparency over secrecy. Structure over spin. Love over anger.

Why 2,150 words and phrases were set aside

Calling Out the Shadows is built as a record for the author's daughter and for anyone documenting a difficult story of their own. To keep that record steady, the book avoids language that can read as padding, as heightened emotion, as a clinical label, or as a charge against a person. My aim was a plain account that lets the documentation carry the weight.

A sample of the overused words and phrases

The largest group is everyday filler: words and phrases that add length without adding meaning. A sample of that group is below. These are the everyday terms the book sets aside.

actuallybasicallyliterallyreallyveryalwaysnevereverythingnothingjustneedthingthingsamazingincredibleawesomestunningkind ofsort ofat the end of the daythe bottom linein factquitetypicallyobviously

The twelve restricted-language categories

Appendix G, Restricted Language Categories and Definitions, sorts the 2,150 words and phrases into twelve categories. Here they are.

1. AI Marker LanguagePhrases that read as machine-generated and can undercut an original voice.
2. Buzzwords, Crutch Terms, and Trendy AdjectivesCorporate and marketing jargon and filler descriptors that dilute meaning.
3. Clichés and Overused ExpressionsRecycled idioms and sayings that weaken clarity.
4. Diagnostic and Mental Health LabelsClinical terms that label a person, set aside in favor of describing observed behavior.
5. Reactive or Sensationalized LanguageCharged wording that escalates tone and can undercut objectivity.
6. Hedging, Minimizing, or Evasive LanguageQualifiers and uncertainty markers that blur directness.
7. Insulting or Defamatory TermsLanguage that attacks character or carries legal and reputational risk.
8. Family and Relationship LabelsJudgmental shorthand for family members or roles, replaced by describing specific behavior.
9. Legal Accusations and AllegationsWording that implies unlawful acts without evidence or counsel.
10. Exaggeration and Amplification TermsIntensifiers and absolutes that overstate what happened.
11. FillerVague, repetitive words that take up space without adding meaning.
12. Personal Preferences, Opinions, and Miscellaneous Negative JudgmentsTerms set aside for tone, style, or personal reasons.

Common questions

What are the restricted words and phrases in Calling Out the Shadows?

They are 2,150 words and phrases Neal Winsomer chose to keep out of the book, listed in Appendix H. This page shows a sample; the full list is in the book.

Why did Neal Winsomer restrict these words?

His intention was to keep the record steady. Setting aside filler, heightened emotion, clinical labels, and charged legal terms was a deliberate choice for a documented account.

How many restricted-language categories are there?

Twelve. Appendix G, Restricted Language Categories and Definitions, sorts the 2,150 words and phrases into twelve categories, from AI marker language and filler to diagnostic labels and legal accusations.

Are the restricted words and phrases listed in the book?

Yes. Appendix H is a full alphabetical list of all 2,150 words and phrases, with the surrounding appendices explaining the categories.

Where can I read the full appendix?

The complete list is in the book, available in paperback, hardcover, ebook, audiobook, large print, and a Skimmer's Edition. The store page lists every format and retailer.

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See the full list in the book

Appendix H holds all 2,150 restricted words and phrases, and the appendices around it explain the categories and the reasoning. You are welcome to read them in Calling Out the Shadows.

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